moving forward but feeling guilty about neutering

[wanda farrow]

Knowing neutering is a good thing and moving forward, but for some reason I don't feel good about it, why must one feel this? all the data is on the wall that this is good, but my feelings are leading towards guilt, I guess this is emotion that one goes threw as the time get closer, is this normal? it's funny to feel this emotion. Im looking deep into my emotion, cause I want to feel good about this decision, I don't why Im going threw this, is it fear why? or is it guilt?...

[Wanda P]

I don;t think it effected Lelo or zena at all, they can;t miss what they never knew about.lelo hated getting her period she would come to me with the sad eyes and i would rub her tummy. I think your be responsible pet owner by saying hey there are tons of animals that need us and it calms all dogs down.... your an excellent mommy and don't be depressed what is done is done, find another way to make it up to him, maybe a special play time with other doggies, they love play dates with the girls!! big hug sweetie hugs wandap

[wanda farrow]

thank you for your comment it comforts me knowing people cares. however, it's not about the babies really, it's about changing the laws of nature and if I have the rights to do this. My daughter has me thinking about things like can I go threw life thinking I did something wrong. Im I changing his character, will he be depressed and so. theses are some of the things Im worrying about.

[Wanda P]

Hey WandaF,
I too looked at lelo and said awe she is so beautiful and would make beautiful babies, it was never about money, you know.. just letting others have this beautiful baby of this diamond i call lelo. but i said" lelo came from adoption, i would do a disservice to all animals that need to adopted to allow her to get pregnant and then sell those precious babies to the wrong person.. so i was sad it had to be done, but i know they are healthier for it i feel good, that i will only have this precious peanut(Lelo), therefore no one can sell her babies to a puppy mill. and when the time comes i will adopt another lovely peanut.
Think of the pain they go thru with birth they can;t tell us oh it hurts i don;t want this. So i feel you made a humain, compassionate and powerful decision, that represents change!! love ya WandaP=ww